Wednesday, November 21, 2007
More art
kitchen table
Saturday, October 27, 2007
OK, so here are some shots of the finished top to the quilt. BAsically, stage one is complete.
I had some difficulty with the edge pieces, as I had accidently cut them wrong. You have to always be thinking when it comes to quilts!!
I am now trying to decide what to use as a backing. I have a large cream colored sheet that matches the stripe in the blue fabric. But I am not loving the combination. It matches yes, but does not speak to me, if you know what I mean. A nice light green that matches some of the other details would be ideal, but this will be an added expense. If I find a good deal at JoAnn's next week when I go, I will consider it. Otherwise, it is the old sheet. I hate to pair something that is only "SO-So" with something that took so much time and effort. So maybe I will wait and save up for a nice matching back.
The other debate is whether to get a backing and an internal batting to make it warm, or to use a fleece back which saves a step. I have made some nice quilts with the fleece backing--they are warm and soft. But I think I may go with the regular backing.
Also, I know a lady who does machine quilting and binding of the edges. I have never tried this method of finishing a quilt, but would like to. Maybe this is my chance. It would cost, but I'd like to see it finished this way.
Anyway, hope you like the top of this one. It took some time, but was worth the effort. Now for the hard part of finishing it! :)
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
Art spot
I did not have any pictures of the kitchen before our remodeling began, but I thought you may be interested in seeing what we did. The after photos are below. We love how it turned out. The only thing we still need to work on is sealing the sink into place.
We re-did the counters, backspash, and knobs and handles.
Saturday, October 6, 2007
Aaah, cold weather is on the way....
I think the pattern itself turned out very neat. You can see how the pattern on the blue fabric lends to the chained pattern of the quilt itself, making it look more like a backdrop for the green fabric. It is very different. I don't know if I would like it with other fabrics, but with these it really turned out.
Hope fully I will have this done before Christmas and can post another update. Although, I am now starting to think about other projects to give as gifts. It is too easy to get distracted. But I love when I get a chance to work on these quilts.
hope you find this post interesting.
Sunday, June 10, 2007
Mom's quilts
falling in love with fabrics. I loved all these fabrics and had fun putting the peices together.
There is something so great about finding a fabric that is beautiful and soft and cozy. That is the key to a good "working" quilt...beauty and comfort. There are lots of wonderful "show" quilts out there, but I personally only like to make the kind of quilt that I am going to be able to use. I don't even mind it when small seams tear. This just shows that whoever has the quilt is using it...wrapping up in it, letting their dog lay on it sometimes :), having picnics on it, sleeping under it, throwing it in the washing machine, etc. It is functional. A quilt it a work of art that you can use.
Sunday, May 13, 2007
The first stages of the quilt
OK, just wanted to start a kind of step by step plan for making a quilt. This is step one of the newest quilt I have been working on. As you can see to the right, I am showing the fabrics I have chosen. I thought that all three of these fabrics would go together, but now I am not sure of the butterfly print on the left. It does not go with the pattern I have chosen. Below is a close up of the main fabric.
OK, so once you have the fabrics, you have to plan and cut. There are a lot of possible patterns to be found on the internet. GO explore and find an easy one you like (especially when you are first starting out). Go for squares. All other shapes are HARD to manage. Definitely start with squares. And they look neat no matter how you put them together.
Then start cutting. I am using big squares and little squares on this one. For the small squares, I sewed strips together and then will cut them into strips the other direction in order to make the sewing part easier.
You can see below how it looks when I cut the strips apart and then start peicing them together into a checkerboard pattern. When I was young, I would take graphing paper and color in the lines with every other block colored in with alternating colors, just like a quilt. And now I love sewing these checkerboards together.
OK, so as I start, I alternate the cutting and the sewing, just to keep it interesting. I get to bored just doing all the cutting then all the sewing. Also, if I am watching TV, I can cut during the show and go to the other room to sew during the commercial.
You can see below how I am starting to peice this quilt together. It is a modified Irish Chain design. I am using the smaller squares for one part part and the larger squares for the other. THen these squares will make a larger pattern of chaining.
I hope you will see as I go and make additional posts what it is like to take these peices and connect them until you all of the suddan have this large whole that makes sense.
I so love doing this and the process of putting things together.
OK, now, this is a retro quilt with a different sort of pattern and cats on it. I need ideas for who should recieve this as a Christmas present, because the best part of finishing a quilt is seeing someone curl up under it. I have had the joy of seeing both my mother and my mother in law open a quilt from me, take it out, and then immediately wrap up in it. That is the best.
OK, more to come, keep watching!!
The call of fabric
Sunday, April 22, 2007
First, some background. I work as a subcontractor for the state as a part of the Department of Mental Retardation Services. We work with people diagnosed with "Mental Retardation". As part of the paperwork of all the people I work with, it states that they are mentally retarded. This is standard language and standard procedure and not in any way intended to be derogatory. It is meant to be explanatory.
But I had this concept challenged the other day. I had a client who was very upset when I arrived at his home. Apparently that week someone had made a comment that upset him. HE asked to talk to me about this and we went walking outside where we could talk privately. This client stated to me that his staff had called him "stupid, dumb, idiot, mentally challenged" I of course recognized to him that this is not right, but I asked him to clarify what exactly his staff said. He replied "She said I am mentally challenged". She used a label...one that is not totally inappropriate. Mentally challenged, Mental retardation, developmentally disabled...this is what we are instructed to call people with diminished mental capacity.
I tried to explain this to my client. He is very smart, regardless of his diagnosis. I tried to explain that we work for the department of mental retardation and that this label is part of his paperwork. He looked at me and loudly stated, "I am not retarded...I am not a retard! I DO NOT want to be called that. THey can't call me that!" He did not want this label that he was given. He understood all the connotations that this label holds.
This experience really made me think about how quick we in the mental health field are to label people in an attempt to understand them, regardless of how we may be boxing them in. People read the labels and think people are less capable, dangerous, scary, disgusting, etc. before they even get a chance to meet them.
I had another experience later this same week of a different client showing me pictures she had taken of large and beautiful brick homes in our town. She flipped through them, pointing out different points of interest. Then she came to a special picture. She held it out to me and said, "THis house is empty...I want to live there!" SHe had a dream. A dream of living independantly in her own beautiful home. She had a very normal dream, but this is not an option for her. I did not try to explain that, however. Her dream was too beautiful to shatter. I want that dream to come true for her.
I learned a lot between these two instances about my clients. What they want and who they want to be. Don't be quick to judge people. This is one of the best things about my job...seeing people with potential and helping them find ways of reaching that potential.
And, of course, learning from my clients. They have a lot to teach, and it is a wonderful and humbling way to learn. Sometimes, after certain sessions, I think they have helped me more than I have helped them.
Check out this site for more info on this topic.
http://www.disabilityisnatural.com/peoplefirstlanguage.htm
Saturday, April 14, 2007
April post
Speaking of that, I have been trying to lose weight for two years. The result is that I have gained 15 pounds. Why does it work that way? So we finally decided to get professional help. I just was not successful on my own, so it seemed like the last option. We are going to start working with a fitness trainer. I will keep everyone posted on how it goes.
When I saw my body fat percentage, I almost croaked. But I am hopeful that this will change. I am learning that if I am going to make these kinds of changes I have to prioritize things other than work. And to make that possible, I am going to have to change the way we spend our money. Everything in life is interconnected when it comes to this stuff. Just like the trainer said about our bodies. All the systems are interconnected. If you improve one area, it will affect all the others.
Well, last thing. Anyone who hasn't check Zorro out, please go to http://www.letters-and-surveys.blogspot.com/ There are some awesome vidoes on there!!
Blog at ya soon!
Monday, March 19, 2007
I think of posts on the way to work
See, the road I live on used to be a railroad track. There was a train that would go up and down. I don't really know what it carried. Maybe some of the farmers goods would be loaded on it. I know that one of my neighbors remembers the times when she would carry milk and live chickens to the old country store where they would be sold and taken to feed the people of the nearest towns. But I don't know about the railroad.
Anyway, on my way to work I pass this old Depot. It is yellow and green and covered in ivy in the summer. Right now the ivy is dead, so it looks sadder than ever. It is beginning to crumble and fall apart, a memorial to an age completely gone by.
And what is even sadder is what is inside. The depot, according to the story that I heard, is filled with all the belongings of a woman who died years ago in a car accident. Her mother owns the old depot and refuses to sell or remove the items. All her daughters things just sit there, probably unmoved since the time that her life was ended and disassembled.
A sad story, yes, but what gets me thinking on my way back and forth from the daily grind is the question of what we are holding onto and what we are letting go of. A mother holding onto a daughter that is far beyond her grasp, letting go slowly of the life that was. I think and wonder about what I am holding too tightly to. What mouldering items I have packed away in my own personal crumbling depot; things that used to have value before I let them rot away in my heart.
And this one is for The Lions Den, but what about our churches? How have they become old creaky depots by which hundreds of cars pass every day, but no trains run to anymore. See a train depot that does not change itself to something else gets left behind in a world that runs on gasoline. Our churches are stuck in an old mindset, wearing a suit and tie, and opening and closing its doors. But the trains are not coming any more. Until our churches start changing their approach, opening up to a world that runs on something different, we won't see a vibrant place of life and growth. We will see the old depot filled with moldy baggage, going no where.
Well enough rambling for now. These are just my observations, and to show that I have not given up on my blog. I also have a new quilt in the making, so if I can find some time I will track its progress for you.
Wednesday, February 28, 2007
Our bodies as a capitalistic market
Well, I guess it started in the fall. They started playing commercials that went something like, "Did you know that you could get cervical cancer from a virus? I didn't know" "A virus?" "Tell someone you love, tell all the women in your life." Etc., etc., on and on. I noticed these commercials as they SEEMED to be public service announcements. No product was mentioned, but no association was mentioned either. Odd. And the commercials seemed confusing to me...like they were saying that you could catch a virus that caused cervical cancer just like you could catch the common cold. Like, "Ooops, I got sneezed on at school, caught this pesky virus and now I have cancer. Who knew?" It seemed like partial info to me, but since it was not marketing anything, I had no reason to suspect any wrongdoing. It seemed to be just commonplace ignorance.
But as many of you have now heard, there is a new vaccine out on the market. And funny enough, somewhere about December, the PSAs about this virus morphed into commercials for the new wonder drug, Guardisil. Don't you want to be "One less" by taking our vaccine? It protects some people for one of the possible causes of cervical cancer, namely HPV or the Human papiloma virus.
What upsets me is not that a vaccine would be developed for HPV. Disease prevention is very important and very good. What irks me is the deception clothed in half truths. The commercials pretend to be educating woman about a health concern. Instead, they are setting women up to think that a specific drug or shot is the only way to avoid a potentially deadly disease.
THis disease is primarily, although not solely, transmitted sexually. All one need to say to be truely educational is, "If you don't have sex outside of a monogomous marriage to another virgin, you have almost no chance of getting this disease." This way people can truely understand how you get the disease, how to prevent the disease, and whether or not they should get the vaccine.
You know one of my biggest fears on this one? THat they will find in 10 years that this vaccine prevents HPV while increasing the risk of some other dread disease. Or that girls will increase risky behavior due to not fully understanding the risks that still are associated with premarital sex.
We need good information, not half truths, in order to really help our kids. If you want to be "one less" blind fool, get your own information and then talk to your kids and other important women in your life about the truth. And let your politicians know that we want one or two less drug companies being allowed to buy the right to decieve!!
OK, I have already have one person who disagrees with my passion on this point. Am I wrong? Let me know....
Monday, February 26, 2007
On being spit on at work
And maybe there will come a day, when I am old and a little senial, when I will get to spit on someone else. It is a great way to get what one wants. I mean, no one likes being spit on. So one day when I am in "the home" and I really want a chocolate bar, I will just start spitting my applesause on people until I get one. Yeah, I deserve it.
Ptooey
Anyone care to share any unique or crazy stuff that has happened at your work?
A woman of the 2000s and the issue of children
OK, so you want me to have children. I get it. But have you thought about what it is like for a modern feminist in the 2000s? You always told me I could be anything...ANYTHING! And guess what I became. A man...well, almost, that is. OK, OK, don't get scared. No sex change or hormones here. Well, in all honestly what I mean is no male hormones. Some female hormones are involved in this issue.
OK, so we are a non-traditional family. A bi-racial marriage to start. But you know what I have realized? Every marriage is bi-cultural, even if the players look alike. We each come into things with our own beliefs about what life should be. But I have been blessed, I am married to a good man who feels God's call in his life. He is brave enough and humble enough to follow this call. Brave, in that he stepped out on faith to do what it took to follow God's call. He is humble too, because he was willing to let his wife make more money and be the "bread winner" of this family.
So here is the thing. I got the job, the one that provided a big income for us so he could give himself to the youth ministry in this area. And I started to go to work, every day. I began to worry about the bills and my paycheck. He began doing the cooking and cleaning. And I began to love it! I would come home and he would have a hot meal ready for me. This is awesome! No wonder men did not want to give up the good thing they had going. And he even tolerated me the day I came home to a messy house and told him he was not being as "effective" as he used to be. What woman would have taken that comment so well.
So, now, many people are asking when I am going to have children. Not if I am, but when. Because it is still assumed that as a woman, I will. But the problem is, I am the breadwinner, the provider. I have to be ready to leave the cave, kill something, and drag it home. I can't do this if I am pregnant or raising children. That is why, when we really lived in caves, men went out with their great strength, while women stayed home. But now, I go.
And, I like to go. I like to be the one with the paycheck. And I like uninterrupted sleep. And I don't like snot. And I always hated babysitting.
So I am left with this. I don't want children. Not now. Maybe not ever, I don't know. I am being what it is I want to be, so this is my life right now. You got the young feminist you wanted, but maybe not the grandkids. Sorry about that. :)
Anyway, I love you very much, and am lucky that you wanted to be both the feminist and the mom. I hope someday to be more like you.
XOXOX
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Rag quilt
And Duke loves this quilt too. He finds it very cozy. :)
An inconvenient poop
Now we know how he really feels about the cute little polar bears who can't find any ice!
I have a great plan for my own video entitled "An inconvenient poop". At my home, with 4 dogs, we have lots of inconvenient poop.
Oh Al. Tsk.
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